On October 16th, Benjamin Maxwell, left his home and family for two years to serve a mission in San Jose, California.

As a missionary: He will teach of Jesus Christ and His gospel. He will have doors slammed in his face and be yelled at. He will meet people from all walks of life. He will stretch himself. He will learn about himself. He will learn of his Heavenly Father's love for him and for all His children. He will learn to follow the promptings of the Holy Ghost. He will serve the people of San Jose. And he will LOVE more than he though possible.

Monday, March 17, 2014

The spiritual inspiration comes from God.

My first district meeting went very well. Talked about the importance of working with members and I came up with a cool relay game that we could all do to help illustrate how working with members is more effective. Thats what I mean by advice for district meetings by the way. I need to know cool activities that the missionaries have done, the spiritual inspiration comes from God.
 
Had the Assistants to the President come to my area to go on exchanges with me this week. I was nervous about why they wanted to come and see this area but it all ended up going very well and we had a great day.
 
For part of the day we were contacting and we were walking down the street and this guy and his girlfriend are walking towards us so we start to talk with them and we get to know them a little bit and then we ask them if they wouuld want to meet up sometime and learn more about the gospel and he said no but that his mom was religious and she would listen. So we ask him where his mom lives and he wouldn't tell us but then as he was walking away he turned around and said, "you know, why don't you go and see her."  (I dont know if he was trying to put it to her or if he was being nice)  But we got her adress and we had time so we went to her place and ended up teaching her the restoration and she said she would love to have us back, but because she is a single woman we said that there were sisters and she said she would be more comfortable with that. SO... now the sisters are seeing her. Its awesome! Quite the miracle!
 
Not a lot of time this week but I will write more next time!
 
Love you all, 
Elder Maxwell

Monday, March 10, 2014

I should probably try to keep a companion for a little bit longer.

Ha-ha! I was reading through the letters and I realized that the sacrament meetings we had were very similar! My Sunday was also all about faith. It must be close enough to the beginning of the year for the lessons to still be lined up. Anyway, we had a really great Sunday!
 
The new ward is great. I am in the Central Park ward now. It borders my last ward and I am still in the same apartment as you have heard. But Allegra is correct, I did change beds. In fact I had to change rooms and I had to move all of my stuff to the new room which was a real bummer because my old room had four full body mirrors and my new room has none so I had to steal one and take it with me.
 
My new companion is Elder Jensen. He was already living with me so I already know him pretty well.  He is a big guy that is honestly a big teddy bear. He loves to give everyone hugs and he thinks like a younger kid.  He is a really great guy and a fantastic missionary.
 
Christian is right as well. I am in my third area now and my fourth companion. I don't think that goes very well for my missionary record. I should probably try to keep a companion for a little bit longer.
   
It has been an awesome experience, so far, being able to be a district leader. I love the feeling of being able to constantly thinking about others and the work that they are doing and not thinking about myself and the work that I am doing. The work I am doing is also important but I am glad that it is not the only thing that I am thinking about now. I don't know if that sounds good or bad but it honestly is a good thing. I am however having a difficult time thinking of some good ideas to do during district meetings so if you could ask the missionaries what some of their favorite district meetings have been then let me know that would be awesome! And any other advice you have for me!
 
Lets see, this week has been really cool. I spent most of the week meeting with ward members and trying to meet with the limited number of investigators that we have. (two)  This area wasn't in the best shape when I got here. There is a lot of work to do, finding wise and building trust with the ward wise. But nothing that can't be done with the Lords help.
 
This wards elders quorum does a really cool thing every year. They have an elders quorum pinewood derby (No Rules/Anything Goes) I signed us up for it so I am going to start working on a super cool car that is spring loaded and it is going to be awesome. Any cool ideas you can find for that, as well, would be cool.
 
We had some really great talks in sacrament meeting about diligence and patience. It was interesting because as I have been studying this past week I have come across a lot of scriptures that mention diligence and I have taken it as a sign from God that I need to be more diligent in every aspect of the work. Praying, reading my scriptures, planning, preparing for meetings, etc... It's a lot to do but as I have applied it I have seen so many blessings that come from it. One of my favorite scriptures was Moroni 8:25-26 I believe. It talks about diligence to prayer and how it keeps all these other things in effect.
 
Next week when I have met more people I will have cooler stories and more experiences to share.
 
Jono,  I was reading your advice to me and you said always style your hair. So far I have kept your advice and it is very good advice.
 
Love you all! Have a great week!
Elder Maxwell

Monday, March 3, 2014

I have fallen in love ... with the scriptures!

    My week has been quite crazy. I forgot to tell everyone last week but we got transfer calls this Saturday and I have been transferred again! Tomorrow will be the start of my fourth transfer, third area, and fourth companion. I feel like blowing through companions this fast is not a good thing... Anyway, hopefully I can email tomorrow and let you all know where I will be going. I am sad that I am leaving this ward. It has been a great 12 weeks here. Missionary time is so crazy. I have only been out for three transfers but I have spent the last three months in this ward. It has not felt like three months has gone by but the 12 weeks have flown by. I know it doesn't make any since but it's crazy.

    First amazing thing of the week is that this Sunday something incredible happened. So if you can remember back to one of my letters in December, I mentioned a less active that we were working with, I have spent the last 12 weeks working with him. He is 55 years old and came to church the first time since he was 12 in December. Ever since then, we have been working with him and keeping him coming to church. He has been consistently coming to church for the last 12 weeks and last Sunday in gospel principles he asked if he could help out in any way. Our ward mission leader told him he could teach part of the lesson the next week. So during the week he was preparing for a five minute portion of the lesson. He also met with the bishop during the week. Then on Sunday, he had the entire lesson prepared and he had been called to serve as a ward family history specialist and he asked me if I would confer the Aaronic Priesthood upon him and ordain him to the office of a priest.
 
    I was completely blown away that he wanted me to do it and I was so happy to see him come so far and go from completely less active to completely active and serving in the ward in 12 weeks. I gave him one of my ties because he has really made a lasting impression on me. I really do know that the gospel has helped him turn his life around. It was so cool seeing the joy on his face as he received the priesthood and was set apart. He will be one that I always remember from my mission. Incredible experience... I need you to send me my priesthood lineage so that I can hand a copy of that off to him. He will want to have that, and it would be a nice thing to have with me on my mission.
 
    Second amazing thing that also happened yesterday (on Sunday), I went up to give my testimony and shared what was in my heart. Then at the very end of the meeting the last person to bare testimony was a youth 17 turning 18. He gets up and say how much I have helped him and how much he looks up to me. As he was standing up there saying this, I saw myself before my mission and how the missionaries were probably my closest friends as they came in and out of the wards. It is amazing to me to know that I have been one of those missionaries for him. He is one of my favorite people in the ward. His family is honestly the Maxwell family of the Irvington ward. That's probably why I see myself in him so much. He got on Facebook and sent me a friend request so if you could get on my Facebook and accept him he would appreciate that. (his last request) He changed his profile picture to an awesome picture of me and him. You got to check it out.
 
   This area has been a huge testimony builder for me. I know that if an area like this can change so dramatically from when I first got here to what it is now, I know that all of my areas can be like that. I am doing everything I can to be as obedient as possible so that the Lord can bless me as much as He wants to. I have fallen in love with the scriptures because of the guidance and understanding that they have given me. It is amazing to be a part of this hastening of the work. I hope that all of you feel the same way because we are all part of the work.
 
    It has been an amazing week and a lot of work has been done.  Just a thought, if you could send me a couple more ties in the next package whenever that is, (Not requesting immediate package) because I gave three away this week, I am searching for some more good ones. I just don't want to run out of ties.
 
    I love you all so much and I look forward to this hour of emailing every week. Be safe and build that family unity!
 
Love, Elder Maxwell

Monday, February 24, 2014

Keeping us accountable is just an awesome blessing on the side.

Yet again we have finished another great week! My companion got sick at the begining of the week and we had to stay in on Tuesday. Then Tuesday night I made a masterful plan that was successful because the Lord really blessed us. I called a member family (basicly the Maxwell family of the ward) and asked them if my companion could sleep on their couch all day because the father was also sick so my companion would have priesthood protection all day. They said that would be fine so I set that in place. Then I called all the splits eligible men in the ward and got four different people to take me around to the appointments all day!

It was a crazy day, it is very difficult to do missionary work without a missionary companion. Don't get me wrong, the members that were with me were amazing members but missionaries are actually called by God to be representitives of Jesus Christ and there are deffinately blessings that are associated with that. Needless to say, I am very greatful that my companion was feeling up to doing work again on Thursday. It was quite interesting how it all worked out. I can remember telling my companion on Monday how one of the hardest parts about being a missionary for me is always having to have a companion with me. Then the Lord decided to teach me why I always need to have a companion with me. It is easier for me to understand now that it's more than just making sure that we are keeping the rules. It is important to have a companion because thats the way that it has been set up. The gospel is ment to be taught two-by-two. The keeping us accountable is just an awesome blessing on the side. I can now say that I am glad to have a companion.

    I got to meet with "Tina" on Wednesday and taught her the restoration. The whole time she was agreeing with everything that was said and she was saying it was answering a lot of the questions she had that the Catholic church wouldn't answer for her. She really is the "Golden Investigator" as Opa said in his letter. As we taught the Atonement to her she started to cry and told us of an experiance that she had. She said that when she was first reading up about the church she read a passage about the Atonement and the spirit filled her and confirmed to her that her Heavenly Father really did love her and that Jesus Christ really is her Savior. She said that she had read similar accounts in the Catholic church but the spirit had never touched her as it did when she read it for the first time in an LDS publication. It was an amazing lesson and the spirit was so strong. I invited her to be baptized and she said that yes she would love to be baptized and then she said that she is moving out to Colorado to live with an LDS family that she had grown really close to and she said that she wanted the father of that family to baptize her. It was really cool and I am glad that she is so prepared and willing. Some missionaries in Colorado are being very good because they have an amazing blessing coming there way. I am so happy that I was able to see that the Lord really is preparing people and that as we are worthy they we be led to us or we will be led to them.
 
    I have been reading a lot in the book of Alma recently and I have been reading through the battle chapters at the end this week and it is so cool to see the Gospel messages that are in those battle strategies. I can see how the Nephites and Lamanites are like Satan and us and it really teaches us ways that we can avoid Satan all together. It also teaches about how when we build up our fortifications we can catch Satan off gaurd and we can show him that we will be an unpenitrable fortress in these days. Satan honestly had no power over us, and I have come to learn that its not beause we are all powerful and all knowing because we are not. Its because we have God on our side and he is all powerful and all knowing. Let us all put up the good fight and not let Satan get past out outer walls. Keep close to those good friends and good influences. Avoid any apearance of evil. When there is a crack in the wall that is where Satan will strike.
 
    I love all of you and I am so happy to hear of all the wonderful experiances and missionary moments that you are all having. Continue to live worthily and recieve the blessings that Heavenly Father has promised!
 
Take care and be safe.
 
Love, Elder Maxwell

Monday, February 17, 2014

I need to put my tie on and get to work!

This week was full of non-stop miracles. It has been so amazing stepping back and looking at everything that the Lord has done to prepare this area. Such an amazing experience being on a mission, but I am still new enough that it feels like two years is going to take forever. For me that is just a sign that I need to put my tie on and get to work! ha-ha

   To start off, we had a district meeting that was focused on talking to everyone last Wednesday and on our way home from district meeting we decided that we really did need to stop and talk to everyone. So we did and the usual ten minute bike ride home turned into an hour! We got two people who were really interested in learning more but neither of them were in our area so we decided that there were other missionaries in those areas that were being obedient and doing what they needed to do to receive blessings and because we were doing what we were supposed to be doing the Lord was letting us be the tools in which the Lord gave them those blessings. An interesting way of looking at it but it really made me think. The Lord really does have a purpose for everything.
 
   Second, we got a referral on Friday morning and we had a pretty busy day ahead of us so we decided that we would wait until Saturday to contact her. Then later in the day one of our appointments fell through and we were close by to where the referral was so we decided that the Lord probably wanted us to go and visit her. So we went to the address and when the door opened a young man opened the door and we asked him if Tina (changed the name just in case) was home.  He said that she was at work and she wouldn't be home until six. We explained to him who we were and said that we would try back later. His mom then comes to the door and tells us that she works at the GNC in the shopping center down the street. We said okay, but we will probably just try back another time. Then we leave. Once we have started biking we realize that we have about 30 minutes until our next appointment. So we decide that we would go over to GNC and just browse around the store to see if we could spot her and maybe start up a conversation while she was working. So we head over to GNC, we lock up our bikes outside and we walk up to the doors and once we open the doors we see a girl that worked there standing right there. She looks at us and we look back at her and then she says, "Are you looking for me?" Completely caught off guard I stumble to say a contemplative, "Yes? Are you Tina?" She says yes that she is Tina and takes us to the side and explains that she had requested that we come and visit her on mormon.org and then she had been waiting for two days for us to show up. She really loves the church and has always felt like the catholic church (the church she grew up in) was missing something. We taught her a quick lesson about the Book of Mormon and set up an appointment to meet with her later on. The whole time she is on the clock and her co-worker is listening to the whole thing. We then ask her if we can say a prayer with her before we go and she was super welcoming to that as well. After we left we just looked at each other and we were both shocked and didn't quite know what had happened. We said another prayer together and thanked the Lord for sending someone so prepared and so ready. We are really excited to continue meeting with her and I am sure you will all hear a lot more about her.
 
   The Lord loves each and every one of us. He really is watching out for all of you and He knows your struggles. Never be afraid to turn to Him in a time of need. I know that the Atonement can heal any mistake or problem that we may have. I love you all and I keep you all in my prayers every night. Keep up the amazing member missionary work.

Love Elder Maxwell

Monday, February 10, 2014

This work is not easy, and that's a fact!

What an amazing week, once again.

 I am going to get right into all the miracles. First, this week started off very interestingly. All of our investigators seemed to have something go terribly wrong. At first I got very down on myself because I felt like we were doing something wrong that was making them all fall away, but my companion told me something very important. He said that Satan will come at us with everything he's got when we are doing everything right and making those important steps in the right direction. I realized that this is very true. I realized that even though we were doing what we knew was right, doesn't make it easy for our investigators. Through a lot of prayer and study for our investigators, by the end of the week I feel like all of them have made a lot of progress and have grown in ways that we couldn't have helped them grow. Just like it says in Ether 12:27... God gives us weakness so that we can become strong. As Jonathan would say, Pain is weakness leaving the body! The same concept, as we struggle and overcome those struggles we become something more, through the Atonement and the help of God. His plan for us includes struggles and strengths but we can't have one without the other. I know that the struggles that we go through are for our benefit. I was studying in Doctrine and Covenants today and I read section 122:1-10. This goes into detail about all the things that Satan will come at us with and how he will never stop. But in the end it promises us that if we hold strong and endure, that God will always be with us and that as we lay down our life for Him and serve Him, we will find our life. This is so true. How can we really know who our Savior is if we are not willing to serve Him. King Benjamin says the same thing in Mosiah 5. I received so much strength from these passages over this last week and I wanted to share that with all of you.
 
   Second, we had the amazing opportunity of having Quentin L. Cook come and speak to our mission on Saturday. He spoke to us about the relationships that are vital as a missionary.
  • One, Love the people. As we love the people we can know how to help them and we can know what their needs are. It is also a lot easier to lose yourself in serving when you love the people you serve.
  • Two, Love the Mission President. I had never thought of this but Elder Cook explained the process of assigning mission calls and he said the most common feeling he get when doing it is that certain people need to be with a certain mission president. It give a whole new understanding to why I am here in California.
  • Three, Love your Companion. He went into detail about how a companionship that is able to work together will be able to accomplish so much more and will be the most effective tool in the Lords hands. I have learned that sometimes it is hard to love your companion but I can agree that the work is much more effective when a companionship is working together in harmony and unity. This can and will apply to marriage as well.
  • Fourth, and very important, is to Love the Lord. God loves us no matter what. He loves us through our trials and He loves us through our high times. I know that as I have learned to love Him, I have been blessed so much and guided by the spirit in all that I do. This work is not easy, and that's a fact, but with the help of the Lord it is very possible and it is essential. The joy that the gospel has brought me in my life is incredible. I can honestly say that it has changed who I am. As I have loved the Lord, He has guided me on a path that will change who I am and where I am going.
  I invite everyone to heed these words of an apostle of the Lord. He is a special witness of Jesus Christ and he speaks what the Lord would have us know. Find a way to apply this to yourself now and I can promise it will change you and help you.

   I love all of you so much and I know that the spirit is watching over all of you. Pray for missionary opportunities everyday and then go and look for them. The work that you do as members makes the work that we do as missionaries more successful. Be safe and have an amazing week. Let me know if there is anything that I can do to help any of you.

Elder Maxwell in California

Monday, February 3, 2014

Another amazing week here in California!

Another amazing week here in California!

Before I forget we changed apartments today. My new address is the same except we are in #209 now instead of #130. So hopefully everyone can get that change. We got moved into a two bedroom apartment and now we are sharing with two other elders that cover the neighboring area.
 
Some very amazing things happened this week. First off we got two new investigators. We met them about a week ago at the mall and we met with them three times this week and one of them is super excited and has a baptism date for March 1st. It has been amazing. We taught them the Restoration and the Plan of Salvation. Those both went super well and the spirit was so strong. The one guy has a kid and we were worried that there might be some law of chastity issues so we decided that we needed to cover that as soon as possible so the third meeting we brought that up and it turns out that the problem that we thought was there, wasn't actually there, so that was good but at the end when we asked him to live the law of chastity he asked us if he had to stop smoking. We told him that the law of chastity didn't cover that. Then we taught the Word of Wisdom and invited him to live that as well and he said that he was willing to try. Super awesome, super solid, super funny. He is a very solid investigator right now and we have a lot of hope and faith in him.
 
Another amazing miracle for the week. On Thursday all of our plans in the afternoon cancelled. We took out our list of less active members in the area and decided to try and see some of them. Everyone was not home. We biked around for a bit and then got a very distinct feeling that we needed to go and visit a very active family. So we went over to their house and only the father was home. He has been unemployed for about three months and his family was completely out of money. We shared a very good message about the Atonement by Quentin L. Cook and bore testimony to him. The spirit was so strong and I knew that the spirit had guided us there to share with him in a time of need. On Sunday in testimony meeting he got up and shared how much a visit from the missionaries had helped him to regain hope through the Atonement and spirit of our Heavenly Father. It truly was an amazing experience for me to see how miracles can happen when we are doing what the spirit is guiding us to do.
 
One last crazy thing that happened this week, also happened during testimony meeting. At the very beginning of the meeting Elder Irvine and I got up to share our testimonies and while Elder Irvine was in the middle of his an older brother in the ward had a heart attack and was nearly dead on the back row. None of the congregation could really know what was happening but then the bishop noticed because some other men in the ward were calling 911 and trying to help him in the very back. This whole time my companion is standing at the pulpit not sure what to do. He is then told by the 1st councilor to continue with his testimony. So while all of this is going on my companion finishes his testimony. Then it is my turn to get up! By this point pretty much everyone knows that something isn't right and nobody is really paying attention to me anymore and I wasn't really sure what to say anymore. I had never really thought of "what would be a good testimony while someone is dying" so I tried to just say things that would pull the congregations attention back towards the front. Really a very interesting situation. Once we finished and went back to our seats, we helped them carry this man out into the foyer and closed the side doors in an attempt to bring the attention back to testimony meeting. They ended up giving him a priesthood blessing and he came back as soon as they anointed his head. That really goes to show the true power of the priesthood. He ended up being fine but being taken to the hospital just in case. What an amazing miracle. The hand of the Lord truly is in this church. There is no doubt in my mind that this is the true church and that this is the Lords gospel.
 
I know this not because I have seen miracles in the work that we are doing but because I have prayed and studied and acted. It is through the power of prayer and study and action that we really come to know that this is true.
 
I love you all and I am so glad that everyone is alright. Nate, you don't need to be embarrassed because I did the same exact thing on my first snow campout. I couldn't find my sleeping bag because it had got left in the car which was several miles away. So I spent half of the night in my wet snow clothes on top of a pad. No blankets or nothing. It really does show that God loves you and cares about you Nate. Stay safe and never be afraid to ask for help. It is with others that we learn and grow. Best thing is you will always use your sleeping bag from now on. Even if you need someone to help you open it.
 
Have an amazing week everyone and I will keep you all in my prayers. 

Love, Elder Maxwell